Merry Christmas!

As a child I looked forward to Christmas all year long.  When the day finally came, like lots of other kids, I was up before the sun staring at the tree just waiting for the moment when my parents would let me tear into my presents.  Now, don't judge me.  You know you did the same thing.  Back then Christmas was about what I got.

Things are different now, though.  I still love Christmas and I still look forward to it, but for slightly different reasons.  My excitement isn't for my own gifts now.  Instead I love to watch my wife and kids open their gifts.  I love their excitement, and I love the look on their faces as they tear off the paper.  Christmas is now about what I give.

We are blessed to have much of our family nearby.  Holidays, especially Christmas, are times of celebration.  We set aside significant amounts of time to be with family, both immediate and extended.  There is always good food to eat, games to play, late night talks, and lots of laughs.  Christmas is also about family.

Long ago God gave us the greatest gift ever given, He gave us Himself.  One of the names that the Bible uses for Jesus is Immanuel which means God with us.  In Jesus God stepped into our world in a way that allowed us to see Him and get to know Him.  Most of all it allowed us to see how much God loves us.  Faith in that changes everything.  That is why Christmas is about Christ.

Thank you so much for reading what I have had to say this year.  I pray that this has been a source of encouragement for you, and I look forward to continuing this journey with you in 2015.

Merry Christmas!

Don't Quit!

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For the last several days I have been praying and thinking about what to say to a Pastors' meeting where I have been invited to preach.  My initial thought was to give a good, solid challenge.  I was considering either a call to come back to our first love, Jesus, or a look at the calling of being a shepherd.  Both are great challenges, but I am considering going a different path.

Just recently I accidentally overheard a portion of a conversation where a pastor was asking for help with a challenge he is facing in the church where he serves.  It sounded like so many stories I have heard before.  The pastor is trying to honor God, but somebody in the church thinks they know better and has thrown down the challenge, "my way or the highway."  The pastor is discouraged and not sure where to go from here.  Many times these scenarios end in the pastor leaving the church or leaving the ministry all together.

So the new direction that I am looking at is to encourage the men who will be there.  Some of them are trying to be faithful to God, His word, and His people, but have been beat up on by the churches and people they serve.  I want to challenge those men to hold on, continue to persevere, and to run the race that God has called them to in that church and in their ministry.  That is very similar to the encouragement that Paul wrote to Timothy in the 4th chapter of 2 Timothy.

As Paul considers his potential death and the passing of the baton to Timothy he says, "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith (verse 7)."  Paul has done his job and has held on to his calling in spite of all kinds of challenges and opposition, and I believe his desire for Timothy was that as he took Paul's place in the race that he would run hard and stay faithful in spite of the challenges that he was facing and the ones that would come farther down the road.

So, as I have looked over this passage today here are the reasons that Paul gave Timothy for staying in the race.  I believe that they are just as valid for us today, and my prayer is that as I open God's word with these pastors in a couple of weeks that it will encourage them to also hang in the race until like Paul they can say they have finished it and kept the faith.

God will be our Judge (verse 1) - One day each one of us will stand before God and give an answer for our lives and ministries.  We need to serve Him with our very best.  Don't quit or move on unless it is very clear that it is His will.

The Word needs to be preached (verse 2) - The answer that the world is looking for is found in Christ as He is revealed in God's word.  If we don't preach it how will they hear?  Stay faithful to God's word.  We can't afford to compromise on it or the priority of it being preached with passion.

A time is coming when people won't listen to sound doctrine (verse 3) - This is already on us in a big way.  People tend to not want to hear truth, especially if it convicts of sin and challenges us to change.  We are all resistant to that, but it will get worse.  That means time is not our friend.  We need to hold fast to God's word and preach and teach it at every opportunity.

There are many teachers who are not faithful to God's word (verse 3) - Let's face it.  There are too many preachers and teachers out there who are willing to compromise in order to draw a crowd.  With that being the case we can't afford to allow God preachers and teachers to leave the ministry because of hurt, discouragement, or moral failure.  Stay the course even when its hard.  Our competition certainly will.

People still need to hear the Gospel (verse 5) - It's the Gospel that changes hearts and lives.  There are millions who need you to stay in the race so that they can have the opportunity to hear this all-important message.  God called you and gave you the privilege of being a part of that process.  Don't quit now.

Here are some bonus thoughts.

How to hang in there:

Keep your head

Endure hardships

Keep the faith

Lessons on Prayer

We have been talking about prayer the last couple of weeks at my church, so I thought I would share some of what we have been learning here.  The following observations all come from Matthew Chapter 6.  I hope that they will be a help to you!

Pray in Secret – verses 5-6

This isn’t a condemnation of praying in public.  Jesus did that a lot.  Instead it’s an attitude check.  We need to be praying to the right audience, and for the right reason.  Our audience is God, not each other.  Also, don’t do something in public that you’re not doing in private.  In other words if we don't put in the time to pray when we are alone, we should hesitate to pray in front of others.

Pray with Purpose – verses 7-8

It's easy to get in the rut of praying out of habit without engaging our minds.  Jesus isn’t saying that we shouldn’t ask for something more than once, instead he’s giving a challenge to be intentional and genuine in our prayers.  Both Paul and Jesus repeated prayers.  Jesus asked multiple times for an option other than the cross (Matt 26:36-46) and Paul repeatedly asked God to remove his thorn in the flesh (2 Cor 12:7-8).  The idea is just that we don't shift into autopilot when we pray.

Jesus’ Example – verses 9-13

Our best example for prayer is to look at what Jesus did.  His teaching here is an example or sample of how we should pray.  It’s a pattern to follow, but not necessarily meant to be memorized and repeated.  That being said I don't think it's wrong to memorize and repeat the Lord's Prayer as long as we keep our minds engaged.  Also, the elements don’t have to be kept in this exact order, or appear in every prayer.

Honor God

Think about who you are praying to.  Jesus says, “Father, in heaven, Hallowed be your name.”  You are talking to your Father who loves you.  He is in heaven yet His presence is everywhere (Psalm 139).  He is holy, separate, set apart.

 Pray for His will

Acknowledge who is really in control (Matthew 6:27 & James 4).  A big hint is, it's not us.  Jesus demonstrated this in the garden.  He prayed for another way, but submitted to His Father's will (Matthew 26:39, 42).  We can know God's will through the work of Holy Spirit and God's word.

Ask for Physical Needs

It's ok to ask for personal physical needs to be met, but that shouldn’t be our focus.  Sometimes, we don’t have because we haven't asked God (James 4:2.)  Jesus also said we should Ask, Seek, Knock (Matthew 7:7-11).  Always ask in faith, trusting God, and committing to His will (Matt. 6:25-34).

Different Answers that He may give:

Yes/No/Wait

 Ask for Forgiveness - verses 12 & 14

Forgiveness is a choice to not hold resentment over an offense.  It's not the same as withholding consequences or taking future precautions.  God expects us to forgive as we’ve been forgiven.  Forgiving others sets us free and displays God’s love.

Keep a short account with God.  Confess daily so that sin doesn't get the chance to harden your heart or hinder your prayers (1st John 1:9).

Do you have any thoughts or observations to share?  I would love to hear what you have been learning about prayer.

**As a reminder, I am moving my blog to Wordpress.  You can find me there at jasonseger.wordpress.com.  Please come by and check it out.  I would love it if you would leave a comment to let me know what you think.  Please also subscribe so that you can keep up with future posts. 

Connect is Moving

Dear friends,

I am honored that so many of you have joined me here.  I hope that you have enjoyed reading what I have been learning through God's word.  It has been a huge blessing for me to share my heart here, and I am looking forward to continuing to engage people through God's word this way.  In order to a little better job of that I have decided to move my blog to wordpress, and I hope that you will follow me to my new "home."

My new blog can be found at:
jasonseger.wordpress.com


For the next couple of weeks I will continue to add posts to both blogs, but after that I will no loner be posting here.  I will leave the old posts up here as long as I can for anyone who wants to access them later on.

Please let me know what you think of the new format when you stop by, and don't forget to subscribe there so that you can continue to receive updates on future posts.  I would love to hear from you.  May God continue to bless you as you seek His face through His word.

In Him,
Jason

The Impact of a Godly Mother

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Do you remember what it was like right after your children were first born?  You know, when they were still loveable?  Before there was eye rolling, back talking, and mess making there was a bundle of joy and potential laying there in your arms.

Do you remember wondering what they would look like, how they would act, and what they would become when they were older?  We did that a lot in the early days after our first daughter was born.  She gave us a lot of time to think about it because she didn’t sleep for the first 2 years of her life, or at least that is how it felt at the time.

Most parents have dreams for their children, but less are willing to make the investment necessary to see those dreams come to life.  For those of us who have Godly mothers we have seen in our lives the impact that they have.  They saw the potential in us early and they nurtured it with love as we grew so that we could realize the potential that God placed within us.

As Paul wrote to Timothy for the second time he encourages Timothy by pointing out the God-honoring traits he sees in him which had their origin in his mother's great faith.  My encouragement to you this week is that as you reflect on these attributes you would recognize your mother's investment in you and make sure that this week and every week she knows how thankful you are for her.

The below comes from observations of 2nd Timothy 1:3-6

Tears of Compassion

Paul outlines his memories of a great man’s character, and he attributes that character to the legacy which was passed from Timothy’s grandmother to his mother, and also from his mother to him.  Paul says that he remembers Timothy’s tears.  This is an expression that Paul uses to show genuine care and compassion for others. 

Sincere Faith

Timothy’s mother passed on to him the makings of a great man, but she also passed on to him something of much greater and eternal worth – a sincere faith.  There is no better foundation for faith to grow on than a consistent example of Godliness lived out at home. 

God's Call

Too many parents put unnecessary pressure on their kids to be or do a certain thing.  They want them to take over the family business, follow in a parent’s footsteps, or go to a certain school when that is not what the child desires and maybe not God’s will for them.  Godly mothers nurture God's calling for their children.  They do this no matter where it will take their kids because their greatest concern is for their kids to be everything God made them to be.

If your mother helped develop these attributes in you then you are truly blessed.  I know that there are many more good things that mothers do and inspire in us, but this is just a sample to get you thinking.  The real key is to recognize their investment in us and then to say "Thank you" not only with words and cards, but also with our lives.

Have you felt the impact of a Godly mother?  I'd love to read your story. 

Where is Your Confidence?

Confidence is a great thing. It can help you push through difficulty or uncertainty if it is placed wisely. Misplaced confidence or overconfidence, however, can lead to disaster. Confidence helped put the first man on the moon while overconfidence helped put the Titanic on the bottom of the ocean. Finding the right balance is delicate, but possible if you draw your confidence from the right source.



Paul was a man who tried it both ways. He had misplaced confidence in himself, and overconfidence in what he had accomplished, but that was in the past for him by the time he penned the words in Philippians 3:1-11. Take a quick look at what he wrote.


It is much easier to put our confidence in the things that we can see and touch than it is to trust in God. We more easily put our trust in bank accounts, jobs, and other things that we think we can control only to find out that they will fail us, or get puffed up with pride because we think that we are in control. Paul learned that degrees, social status, and self-righteousness are worthless in comparison to what Christ is and what He has called us to. In the end Paul considered all of that stuff to be garbage in contrast to the greatness of His Lord's plan for him.


What about you? Where is your confidence? I pray that if your confidence is in the wrong place you will make the necessary change. The truth is that our sense of control is an illusion and that any physical thing on which we put our confidence is prone to fail us, but He never will. His plan for your life exceeds anything this world can offer. Commit wholeheartedly to it and you will never regret it.

Want to read more?  I would love it if you checked out my new book Attitude Check.  The above is an excerpt from chapter 4.  I hope you enjoy it.  You can pick up a copy in paperback or for Kindle here.

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3 Days to Hope

This weekend we celebrate hope.  Not just a slogan, not hope in a person or organization, but hope in God.  This hope is more like a promise or guarantee.  It’s a hope that changes everything.  It didn’t seem that way in the beginning, though.    

The first day began with disbelief and ended with despair.  Jesus’ followers watched as He was tried and executed for no apparent reason other than jealousy.  They had given up everything to follow Him, and now He was gone.  He promised to make them fishers of men and to establish a new kingdom, but then He died.  The beating, the cross, the nails, and the spear all seemed to come from nowhere and take Him without warning. They were helpless to stop it and their hearts were stricken by grief, but that was the first day and it would not last long. 

The second day was again marked by fear.  Jesus’ followers hid all day, windows were closed and doors were locked.  The sound of footsteps outside sent shivers down their spines as they tried to fight back against panic.  If the Pharisees would do that to Jesus they might do the same to those who follow Him.  So, they huddled together and waited for the Sabbath to pass so that they could finish preparing His body for burial.  They were confused and afraid, but that was the second day and it wouldn’t last long either.

The third day began early and at first was more confusing and raised more questions.  His body was gone, what happened, where was He moved?  Then the rumors of sightings began to circulate.  Had their grief driven them crazy?  By evening they were exhausted.  Again fear had driven them to huddle in a locked room, but then hope came in.  Locked doors and windows would not stop Him.  It was Jesus!  He is Alive!  That moment changed everything for this small group of disciples, and it has also changed everything for us.  We have a hope that will not fade no matter what may come because Jesus walked out of that tomb.  Because of this Hope we now have a Purpose, we know that we are Not Alone, and for us the Grave will not be the End.  This weekend we celebrate Hope! 

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